Ask HR: Why use stay interviews?

Ask HR: Adverse Action vs. Unfair Dismissal, stay interviews
Most businesses are familiar with exit interviews—but by the time you’re having that conversation, it’s too late. That’s where stay interviews come in. These proactive, one-on-one conversations between a manager and an employee are designed to uncover what keeps your people engaged—and what might cause them to consider leaving.

The Role of Stay Interviews

Rather than waiting for someone to resign, stay interviews give you the chance to identify issues early, build trust, and improve retention. They don’t need to be formal or lengthy—just a genuine conversation focused on listening and learning.

What to Ask

Here are a few questions that work well in a stay interview:

  • What do you enjoy most about your job?
  • What would make your day-to-day work better?
  • Do you feel recognised for your contributions?
  • Is there anything that would tempt you to leave?
  • What support or development opportunities would help you grow?

Getting Started 

Pick a handful of employees—especially your high performers—and start with one simple, open conversation. Aim to do this every 6–12 months, and make sure you follow up on what you hear.

By making stay interviews part of your people strategy, you can take a more proactive and personal approach to retention, engagement, and culture-building—long before someone starts thinking about a move.

Use this cheat sheet to help you document the outcome!

How can Businessary help you?

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